5 signs your significant other is in it for the long haul

5 signs your significant other is in it for the long haul:

So you’ve been dating your significant other for a little bit of time now and maybe your not so sure where the relationship is going. Or maybe you just want to make sure this isn’t just another fling. Here are some signs that definitely show that your significant other is in it for the long haul:

  1. You have met the friends and family. I cannot stress this one enough. If someone is really into you and they want things to work long term they are going to want you to meet the most important people in their lives, whether it be family or friends. I know if I met the guy of my dreams and we were seeing each other I would definitely introduce him to my family, and I rarely do that, so If I do introduce a guy it means its serious.

  1. You are a part of their long term plans. Does he or she mention your name when they talk about where they see themselves in a year or future endeavors. If someone incorporates you into their future life that hasnt even occurred yet, chances are they are taking you and your relationship pretty seriously.

  1. If both of you are comfortable with talking about marriage or living together then chances are you guys are open to long haul capabilities. : )

  1. He or she doesn’t flirt with anyone but you, and only has eyes for you. When you are together it’s like no one else is in the room, and when you are not together they make it known that you are a part of their life.

  2. If their coworkers know about you, that means they talk about you and they don’t want you to go anywhere.

I hope you guys enjoyed!! Have anymore signs to add, send them to iwantmykissesback@gmail.com

Thanks for reading guys!!

2 thoughts on “5 signs your significant other is in it for the long haul

  1. hey! i have a question about #4. I’ve been told that guys can be in it for the long haul but still check out other ladies and stuff, because they’re dudes and that’s what dudes do. THoughts?
    also, does the guy have to exhibit all of these things or some, or one of them?

  2. It is normal for a guy or girl to find another person attractive, but at the same time it is disrespectful in my opinion to literally go out of your way to check out another person. If i see a guy that is handsome, I think simply that and nothing more, because to me my boyfriend is the hottest guy ever and its like those now what commercials, oh your hot—-now what. What else can you bring to the table? And that’s where your significant other comes in, he or she should be all of that and a bag of chips, so if your significant others makes an effort to check out other women, then he’s not in it for the long haul. He wouldn’t disrespect you like that you would be his main priority. It is okay to think someone looks nice, but i dont seek that out and i dont notice other guys as much anymore, because i am in it for the long haul. Hope this helps. Thanks for reading Inem!!

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